26th Mar 2012

Choosing the better path

Today’s Forum page had two excellently written letters (Spending time with family builds character, Family bonding hit by weekend schoolwork) about the tension between family-bonding-and-character-building time and schoolwork. It reflects...

26th Mar 2012

Forum Letter – Family bonding hit by weekend schoolwork

The Straits Times Forum 26 Mar 2012 THE Government introduced the five-day work week in 2004 to improve work-life balance and provide a more relaxed environment for parent-child bonding on...

26th Mar 2012

Forum Letter – Spending time with family builds character

The Straits Times Forum 26 Mar 2012 MY FATHER, who has since passed on, worked long hours to support my large and extended family. Yet his core character values were...

22nd Mar 2012

Another way I show my love

Tonight we found Elias’ wallet, which I wrote about in my earlier post. When I suggested, two years ago, that he writes “I love my family” in place of “I...

22nd Mar 2012

Remember why you got married

This is a forum letter (ST 11 Mar 2012) by Peter Stephens which touched my heart.  Here is an excerpt:- “My wife has stood by me through everything, from the...

16th Mar 2012

It’s ok, let’s play again!

I believe that every parent with more than one child has a secret wish.  He or she wishes that each of their child will be as smart as the smartest,...

12th Mar 2012

"Can you hear it?" (Do you see it?)

Elkan and Elias do not get to go to the library very often nowadays.  So when I go to the library, I would search for books related to their areas...

08th Mar 2012

This is our child, as is given to us

Elias was a very cute toddler. He however, often caused us lots of heartaches, not because he misbehaved, but that he often bumped into things and hurt his head. In...

07th Mar 2012

The baby in the child

This is Elkan’s final year as a child, although most people will call him a pre-teen.  This morning as I watched him walk to school, I am reminded of the...

05th Mar 2012

How to deal with verbal bullying

Name-callings happen often in school.  It can be very distressing, and the more the bully sees that the name-calling affects you, the more he will do it. Elkan has a...