08th Mar 2018

I Still Do

I don’t talk to my husband much nowadays. We are going through a busy season of our lives. We do a lot of functional talking – to plan and problem...

03rd Dec 2015

Proverbs 31 or Ephesians 5:33 – Which one are you?

Proverbs 31 : 10 -31 are verses which every Christian woman hold dearly to her heart. We all want to be a Proverbs 31 woman. It reminds me of the Chinese...

15th Nov 2013

We stay, by God’s grace

This month we celebrated our Wedding Anniversary. It sounds strange but we are finally really happy now as a couple. My husband said – this is the first anniversary when...

04th Mar 2013

I cannot do it without you

Last Sunday the pastor who preached talked about pride and arrogance. I have a lot of arrogance with regards to being a mother.  I speak well of my husband, but...

Give my husband a new wife, and let it be me

I remember hearing some time back, that the father is the head of the family, and the mother is the heart. Most women know, of the power they hold over...

04th Sep 2012

M.A.D. (Mum and Dad) time – for the love of our children

It is not easy for Edmund and I to get away on an extended date.  We do spend regular time together – we jog together at least twice a week, and...

22nd Mar 2012

Remember why you got married

This is a forum letter (ST 11 Mar 2012) by Peter Stephens which touched my heart.  Here is an excerpt:- “My wife has stood by me through everything, from the...

10th Dec 2011

Till death do us part

Yesterday, I attended a friend’s father’s wake. The father was 90 years old. There were many moving eulogies made by the children and grand children. One part which stuck to...

04th Dec 2011

A good divorce

Today (13 Nov 2011), there was an article titled ‘The good divorce’ by Susan Gregory Thomas in the Sunday Times. I was impressed with how much effort they put in,...

04th Dec 2011

For better or for worse

Introduction   I once watched a ‘Chicken soup’ movie, about a boy whose parents were fighting and contemplating divorce.  At the ‘Parent-Teacher-Conference’, they saw a picture drawn by the son. ...